Is it good to have a wish list of whom I want to marry?

BySinglz' Summit

When it comes to whom to marry, it is best you don’t have a stereotype in your mind.

You don’t need a wish list or set a preference as to the specific kind of person (Pastor, Businessman, a particular frame or shape and other natural desires).

It is good enough to desire to marry a believer, whose ultimate desire is laying hold on eternal life.

That said, you should leave the rest for God to decide for you.

A “man of God” or “any other person” whose ultimate desire is not to lay hold on eternal life will make a bad minister and a bad husband

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