Firstly and principally, you need to submit to your Pastors’ counsels. Biblically, they are the ones that have rule over you. Moreover, from experience they would understand that as a 200 level student, what you need essentially is a stronger walk with God, and not courtship. Truth be told, venturing into relationship at this stage…
It is quite normal to show signs of inadequate trust in a marital relationship, especially when it is just beginning. This is because trust does not happen automatically in a relationship, or simply because the two people involved are of same fold. This is also because trust is something based on knowledge and no one…
Such a brother must be stopped. Going about introducing a sister, as your future wife when she has not given her consent is not only bad but also manipulative. As a believer, you have a right to be led by the Lord as to who you get married to, and this must be respected by…
As many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the Sons of God. It is non negotiable as a believer to be led by the Spirit concerning issues of this life, especially concerning choosing a life partner. The primary way The Holy Spirit leads us in the New Testament is by bearing…
When it comes to whom to marry, it is best you don’t have a stereotype in your mind. You don’t need a wish list or set a preference as to the specific kind of person (Pastor, Businessman, a particular frame or shape and other natural desires). It is good enough to desire to marry a…
1. Have the knowing The greatest thing a believer should discover is the purpose of his/her calling as a believer. When the purpose of your calling is not known you are liable to abuse in every other aspect of your life. We should know that the essence of our calling is to conform to the…
Though courtship is not a vivid biblical concept, yet it serves a good purpose. Courtship begins when a male and a female has either formal or informal agreement to begin a marriage relationship. It is the time created to know one another’s weaknesses and strengths, and the time to build stronger relationship with God. It…