What do I do about a brother who calls me his future wife when I have not gotten God’s leading that he is my husband?

Such a brother must be stopped. Going about introducing a sister, as your future wife when she has not given her consent is not only bad but also manipulative. As a believer, you have a right to be led by the Lord as to who you get married to, and this must be respected by…

Do I still need to pray to know if a lady is the right one for me since I have the Spirit of God that is agreeing with my spirit that she is the one?

As many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the Sons of God. It is non negotiable as a believer to be led by the Spirit concerning issues of this life, especially concerning choosing a life partner. The primary way The Holy Spirit leads us in the New Testament is by bearing…

How can you reach out to friends who are Christians, but are yet to hear about this gospel of TRUTH?

Before reaching out to anyone about the message of “THE TRUTH” you must make sure that you understand the Truth to an extent…and have given yourself to the obedience of the Truth as well. This is important because to effectively reach out to anyone about this gospel of the Truth, you need wisdom, which only…

How can a child of God access the gift of the Spirit? 1Cor 12:1-31, Hebrew 2:1-3

The baptism of the Holy Ghost is a spiritual endowment to serve the Lord. The Gifts of the Spirit is given when one is baptized into the Holy Ghost with the evidence of speaking in tongue. The activities of the gifts of the Spirit upon a believer are called manifestations of the Holy Ghost. It…

In courtship, is it right to encounter/engage in serial argument?

Though courtship is not a vivid biblical concept, yet it serves a good purpose. Courtship begins when a male and a female has either formal or informal agreement to begin a marriage relationship. It is the time created to know one another’s weaknesses and strengths, and the time to build stronger relationship with God. It…

How do I know when I am not growing in Christ, even when I love going for meetings and listening to the Word?

Naturally, as long as you are eating healthy, there is a very high likelihood of growth. In the case of spiritual things our food is the Word of Truth which we receive via preaching and teaching. Love for meetings and listening to the Word indicates healthy development. (1Pet 2:2). You may not be able to…

Let’s say I find myself in a gathering for example, a family morning devotion where God’s Word is watered down. Am I supposed to chip in comments even when I know it would most likely lead to arguments?

The fact that you see a fault does not necessarily mean you have the authority or wisdom to bring about correction. Most of the time, we correct just to display our seemingly “superior knowledge”. Many of us still lack the spiritual stature needed to turn hearts from error. Most times the best and only thing…