Courtship & marriage

What if I receive the person I am to marry in my second year in school?

Firstly and principally, you need to submit to your Pastors’ counsels. Biblically, they are the ones that have rule over you. Moreover, from experience they would understand that as a 200 level student, what you need essentially is a stronger walk with God, and not courtship. Truth be told, venturing into relationship at this stage…

Spiritual Life

How do I handle materials such as songs or books which are not Spirit-filled, but necessary for my academics or career?

Obviously, we are surrounded by materials that have no bearing to our spiritual heritage or God’s purpose for our lives. Some of these are recommended texts in schools and are helpful in our respective career paths. Examples of such materials are books that center on motivation, among others. There is nothing wrong with using those…

Courtship & marriage

Is it normal that a brother in courtship with a sister in the same fold doesn’t feel like she trusts him with her future or she trusts God in him even though he is sure that God is leading him?

It is quite normal to show signs of inadequate trust in a marital relationship, especially when it is just beginning. This is because trust does not happen automatically in a relationship, or simply because the two people involved are of same fold. This is also because trust is something based on knowledge and no one…

Courtship & marriage

Do I still need to pray to know if a lady is the right one for me since I have the Spirit of God that is agreeing with my spirit that she is the one?

As many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the Sons of God. It is non negotiable as a believer to be led by the Spirit concerning issues of this life, especially concerning choosing a life partner. The primary way The Holy Spirit leads us in the New Testament is by bearing…